The last month has been – strange. Very good at times, not so good at others. Let’s see if I can recap.
I started Lyrica. It seems to be helping. I still hurt all the time, but I have more days of functionality. I can get more things done before I have to crash. I do sometimes still crash though, and crash hard. One of the newest developments is back spasms. For a long time now, I’ve had this one muscle in my lower back/hip that has always been the area that hurts the most. I thought that maybe a muscle relaxant might help, so I asked the doctor for a prescription for Flexeril, which I received. It didn’t seem to help a whole lot though, until… I woke up one day and literally couldn’t move. The pain woke me about four in the morning, and I couldn’t sit up in bed to get out. I laid in bed, trying to relax it, until about seven, when Murphy woke up, and I called to him to get Dad because I needed help. Somehow, with a few screams and many tears, he helped me get to a standing position so I could get to the bathroom. You never realize how your muscles interact until something like this happens, how every movement you make uses muscles you wouldn’t expect. Anyway, my wonderful guys got me set up in a comfortable chair with a heating pad (thanks to the Ojai Unconditional Give or Take Facebook page), my Flexeril, knitting, coffee and a cane, and they went off to school and work, and I sat there, willing that damn muscle to relax already. It did, slowly; by the next day I was mostly fine, except a lingering reluctance to move too fast, in fear that it would spasm again, and a residual ache. I can’t remember if I blogged it, but I did see the Physical Therapist for an “evaluation” to see if I am eligible for service, according to Gold Coast Medicaid. In fact, I saw him several days prior to the spasm, and I wondered if it spasm-ed because of the manipulation he’d done (not blaming him; there’s something wrong there and it needs manipulation to be fixed). Anyway, I haven’t heard if I’m eligible yet. Really hoping I get at least a few visits.
Every now and again, since I started the Lyrica, I have a day like this past Sunday. I woke up full of energy, not much pain, feeling very much like my old self. I got a lot of things done that have needed doing for a long time. Of course, Monday, I woke up sore all over. But not horrible, which is what usually happens. Then I settle back into a medium point of a fair amount of pain but not so much I can’t say, make dinner. I still have some very troubling symptoms that my doctor has NO clue about and is therefore sending me to more specialists… a daily afternoon tremor/shakiness that is sometimes severe and makes me anxious, which he finally saw and documented, so I go to a neurologist, and a trouble swallowing that he’s sending me to a GI guy because the ENT referral which is like three months old already still could take months more. So all of that, plus (oh joy) my first colonoscopy scheduled this month, means I’ll be getting a lot of sock knitting done in doctor’s waiting rooms.
The Lyrica overall does seem to be helping but there is one concern; it’s making me ravenous. It’s breaking down the walls I had built around my eating; I’m starting to eat compulsively again and in the month I’ve been on it I’ve gained almost ten pounds. My vegan lifestyle is breaking down. It’s really been incredibly hard to stick to. I slip in a chicken nugget here, chicken breast for dinner one night; and I even swiped a couple of my son’s cheese sticks to snack on, the one place I really didn’t want to go. I’ve got to work on some way of mitigating the compulsive feeling. Very troubling.
In other than health related news, I’ve been busy. I’m trying to get out more, get over my people phobia and make some friends. Through Ojai Barter Bin (another FB page; Ojai has lots!) I met a really interesting woman named Laura. She and I have a lot in common; the way we think and our values, but a huge difference in life experience. She spent most of her adult life in Japan, and only moved to California a few years ago. I really enjoyed the night we spent coloring her hair (that was the barter.) She’s a little guarded though, and I have a tendency to rush in, so I’m trying to hold back a little, let things progress at her pace. I’m meeting a lot of people online, and hoping to meet them in person in Ojai at various functions, including a little Occupy Ojai type protest at BOA this weekend. Bunch of Ojai hippies! =]
My business is starting to percolate a bit too. I have currently a small class of kids that I’m teaching about fiber, sheep to shawl kind of a class, and I had an inquiry last night for another. I’m selling some yarn, and some socks. The name change to Valley of the Moon Fiber Works was helpful, I think, and I’m learning how to get the word out through all kinds of social media; Betterfly, the Ojai Wall, a Facebook page for the business, and word of mouth through FB friends. Ambitious, but it feels good.
The family is doing well; Peru is playing around town with the band 33 North, and they have a regular gig at The Wrec Room on Thursday nights. He’s busy with the Montessori kids; they love him. I joined the Parent Group and may be Room Mother for Murphy’s class, and at the meeting when I said my name they all started talking about how much their child loves Mr. Bob. It was really cute. Murphy is playing soccer and is goalie this year; he’s doing really well at it too. He’s in middle school now (unbelievable!) and loves that too, though having the homework schedule be different this year is taking some adjusting. He’ll get it though; he’s so smart. Eric is acting; he’s helping Mr. Slade with the High School production of Romeo and Juliet, playing Friar Lawrence, I believe. The performance is in December; I can’t wait to see it.
It’s been an emotional roller coaster, but then, I guess it always is. I’m so grateful to the Beloved, who helps and supports me in every way, all the time, and never indicates a bit of resentment or frustration with my ups and downs, or with the slack he has to make up, and beyond that, still loves me more than I ever expected was possible. I am a very lucky woman.